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  • "...we began receiving death threats to ensure our silence."

  • "...someone with no agenda."

  • Join the Chorus

  • Vietnam Blankets for Babies Emergency Relief Fundraiser Update

  • Vietnam and Guatemala News

  • CHEW

  • Circle of Scams: Adoption Con Artist On America's Most Wanted

  • Dawn's Playlist: The YouTube Crummy and Corrupt Video Collection.

  • Night, Night Tedi Bear Hedstrom?

  • About To Adopt? Reset Your Compass

  • Crash and Burn: Adoption Blessings Worldwide

  • Fleas Biting

  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration

  • Workshop 2.3: Adoptee Access to Records, History and Searches: Adopted People and the “Right to Know”

  • Risks of Umbrellaing

  • US Embassy in Vietnam: Summary of Irregularities in Adoptions in Vietnam

  • When the Bough Breaks -- Criticisms of Tamil Nadu's Baby Cradle Scheme

 
  • Ungrateful Little Bastard

  • Preventing the first form of violence against children: abandonment at birth

  • Because it's just too damn expensive to Meetup in the city

  • New adoption vlogger

  • NBC Reality Series "Baby Borrowers" Damaging to Kids

  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration Press Release

  • ReadingWritingLiving

  • Food On a String

  • Insomnia Meme

  • Her New Life

  • Farewell, Kar

  • Julia

  • Wet Feet

  • conversations with myself

  • The Heat

  • This was going to be a bulleted list, but I only got to one

  • 19 May 2008 | 11:08 pm

  • sometime in may, then

 
  • Rights of Adoptees

  • Take Me Out to The Ballgame

  • A Confidential Intermediary?

  • Confidentiality allows people to play God

  • Open Letter to Co-sponsors of HB 4623

  • AL CAPONE'S GHOST?

  • Motherhood Deleted

  • "Independence" Day

  • Oh, Give Me A Break

  • Back To The Future

  • New Old Kids On The Block

  • History In Danger..Of Being Repeated???

  • Diarrhea of a madman

  • GO CELTICS!

  • Mortality

  • OMG I have been abandoned!!11!

  • The ethics of vegan parenting

  • Terminology revisited

 
  • Production, Not Reproduction

  • One Word Meme

  • Happy Independence Day

  • Happy Happy Joy Joy

  • Lemonade Stands

  • She's growing more aware by the day

  • 제인 정의 블로그 Jane's blog

  • Dual Citizenship for Internationally Adopted Koreans

  • 한국말로 끌 쓰도록 노력 할게요

  • Another great truth and reconciliation commission

  • Memorial Service for Julia (구지혜)님을 위한 추모식

  • 3 Jun 2008 | 8:37 am

  • The Open Window

  • On Disruption

  • Parent of the Year

  • Cool Dude

  • The Sour and the Sweet

  • Starting the Search -- Updated, and Updated Again

 
  • The Daily Bastardette

  • MICHIGAN: WARNING--HB4896/4897/6287 ARE NOT CLEAN BILLS

  • AN OPEN LETTER TO THE EVAN B. DONALDSON ADOPTION INSTITUTE FROM BASTARD NATION

  • CALLING ALL CENTRAL OHIO BASTARDS: COMFEST WEEKEND

  • BASTARDETTE COMMUNIQUE: RUSSIAN ADOPTEE BLOG SITE NOW UP

  • FOREVER FAMILY - FOREVER DEAD UPDATE: KIMBERLY EMELYANTSEV PLEADS GUILTY

  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration JULY 22, 2008 NEW ORLEANS

  • Resist social stigmas

  • Second Life the chance to do it all again...

  • the 5th right

  • BB moves on

  • Adoptee Rights Demonstration Update!

  • Joy's Division

  • Pride and Insight

  • See All You Beautiful People This Weekend

  • Perspective

  • Disappointment

  • Potent Disillusionment

 
  • Possum's Place

  • Bitter, Angry and Ungrateful Adoptee

  • To An Adoptee.......It's All About Lines..........

  • Giving Up On Hopes, Dreams & Wishes

  • The ONLY Way Adoption Should Be.

  • Writing Campaign Announcement

  • Mia's Saving Grace

  • Father Tom

  • How Do We Care For Our Old?

  • Scary Prank “PAP” call

  • A Little Cheese With That Whine?

  • Mommy

  • Kimchi Mamas

  • My grandma - the living historian

  • Open Thread Thursday

  • Peace

  • The Reluctant Kimchi Mama

  • Golf Fever: Congenital talent... or

 
  • We all come from 'Seoul'

  • This sound moves my 'Seoul'

  • Daniel Henney - Best Actor in 'My Father'

  • Om namoh Amithabaya - Lotus Lantern Festival

  • Students amazed by life's wonder under the sea

  • Rocking my 'Seoul'

  • Infant Atwell

  • Slipping into sadness

  • Happy ? Anniversary

  • Anniversary time

  • Update!

  • Happy Mother's Day

  • omegamom.com

  • I’ve looked at clouds from both sides now

  • Things learned at summer camp

  • Enhancements

  • Nervous Nellie

  • Rock of ages

 
  • SECOND CHANCES

  • SERENDIPITY

  • WEIGH IN ON ADOPTION LANGUAGE

  • WHEN IT WORKS, IT WORKS

  • 24 HOURS LATER

  • THE LETTER I WON'T WRITE

  • Adoption Support at Forever Parents

  • Missouri Adoption Heart Gallery

  • Go With The Flow…Even If It’s “Wrong”.

  • John McCain Adopted One Of His Children From Bangladesh

  • Treat Dad To Frosty And Help Children In Foster Care

  • Interesting Posts in the Adoption Blogospere

  • Weebles Wobblog...and we don't fall down

  • Sacral chakra: sex, money, power

  • An open thanks to Oopiderf and his wife

  • Root chakra: red, tribal, survival

  • Show & Tell: proof I like purple

  • Newsiness

 
  • Drama 2B Mama

  • The longest weekend

  • Open adoption workshop in Denver

  • The lowdown

  • Battle, blizzard, baby boy?

  • They psychic and the intuitive

  • Therapy Is Expensive

  • Some Advice

  • Relative Strangers

  • I’m home

  • 2 days til visit

  • good bye to you

  • singout

  • Revisiting birthdays

  • nothing

  • Here I am again

  • Dear Abby

  • We Did It

 
  • The Roads I've Taken

  • Confusion and Disrespect

  • Been doing some thinking…..UH-OH

  • 21 May 2008 | 5:42 am

  • Still Nothing

  • Mother’s Day

  • A Barrel of Nelsons

  • Fruit Salad

  • Heartbreaking to Look At

  • The Vague and The Fact That Ang is Running Scared

  • So, Yeah… To Follow Up

  • Confessions of a Pseudo-Stalker

  • Adoptee Journal

  • My Really Insecure (Adoptive) Father

  • Crushing on Albee

  • Spell Check This

  • Why I Hate Charades

  • Really Bad Parents

 
  • According To Addie

  • In Pace Requiescat

  • I Know A Secret

  • Fathers Day

  • A Day For Adoptee Fights

  • Hard Realities

  • Adoption Animal House

  • Reunion in the Fog

  • Fallout From the Lie

  • RIP Freija Ann

  • It Is Good To Know I Am Not Crazy

  • The Lie That Keeps Working

  • Oh Oh Oh OMalleys

  • Acceptance, Accolades, Approval - Alltop

  • Rochester Direct

  • Kids, Sarcasm and the FCC

  • Feed My Starving Child!

  • What's "Wrong" With Scarlett?

 
  • Julia's JAM

  • …a letter

  • A Letter

  • 10:27AM

  • Someone to Spare

  • Eulogy

  • Finding Jane Doe

  • Getting Over It

  • Who Am I

  • Come and Gone

  • The Best Thing for the Child

  • Other People's Shoes

  • Baby Love Child

  • News- A few final June articles relating to Lisa Novak and the Claar foundation

  • News- “International Adoptions Lead to Broken Dreams”

  • Evan B. Donaldson Institute steps in it ~AGAIN~! Actions speak louder than words.

  • An ARD/DAR withdrawals ‘bare bones’ timeline

  • News- Several more stories on Lisa Novak and Claar Foundation

 
  • O Momma Writes

  • Does Your Kid Hate Milk?

  • Scrapbooking Resource

  • July Desktop

  • Kids Music that Doesn’t Hurt My Ears

  • Photo Friday: Little Leah and the Dress

  • Second Time Around

  • Fantasies

  • The Little Things

  • What's In A Name? Everything

  • Becoming Friends

  • Blogging

  • only an adoptee

  • the girls who went away.

  • lets tell the truth

  • Simply asking. is so hard.

  • UPs and down and I am still ok.. :)

  • 10 Oct 2007 | 10:46 pm

 
  • Land of the Not-So-Calm

  • NaJuPicMo - July 4

  • NaJuPicMo - July 3

  • National July Picture Month

  • A Day of Things Unknown

  • Going Home, Leaving Home

  • I Should Really Be Working....

  • Pic for Yesterday…

  • My Mommy Is So Mean!

  • I Don’t Normally Do Things Like This! TeeHee

  • Scuzzy Safe Haven Ad - Yuck

  • A Much Needed Break

  • American Family

  • Comment Reply

  • odds and ends

  • storm a brewin’

  • Burrito Warriors.

  • Just call her Ponzi

 
  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration

  • Poster Board Requirements

  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration Press Release

  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration

  • Adoptee Rights Demonstration update

  • Writing Campaign Announcement

  • BastardGrannyAnnie

  • MICHIGAN HB 4896 – BAIT & SWITCH

  • ADOPTEE RIGHTS LEGISLATION: THE BIG LIE

  • 22 Jun 2008 | 10:19 am

  • DEAL OR NO DEAL

  • CONFIDENTIAL INTERMEDIARIES FOR EVERYONE

  • Harlow's Monkey

  • July 4th

  • Happy 4th and miscellaneous links

  • This is why

  • Run by Ann Patchett

  • More on Asian adoptees as a Hollywood trend

 
  • Peter's Cross Station

  • People Can Really be Jerks, You Know?

  • Dispatches from Hoam Skule

  • At a Loss

  • Notes on Chicago

  • Dies Irae

  • Adopt This!

  • I’m Now In an Open Adoption

  • Connections

  • What is a Good Adoptee?

  • Not Much to Write About

  • About This Blog

  • welcome to my brain

  • Just when I thought there was a perfect natural consequence

  • Baring my privates

  • Easy vegetarian pot (four ingredients!!)

  • Magical Milk Pic-O-The-Week

  • A great addition to cuddle time

 
  • Away To Me

  • Happy 4th of July

  • Can't wipe the smile off my face!

  • I figured I was having a crap day

  • Scariest Moment of my life

  • Talking to myself.

  • boomerific

  • Playground Invasion

  • Heh, heh.

  • Everything is as it should be

  • Sster wises up; flood laundry

  • Growing Pains

  • Vindauga

  • Happy Birthday Noelle

  • Open House

  • Calling all bread makers, pizza dough makers, cooks, etc.

  • The Definition of Middle-Aged

  • New discoveries to love

 
  • Misplaced Baggage

  • The “adoptee perspective” - taking stands and choosing sides

  • Got war?

  • Người Việt, Jami Farkas and Unfollowed Follow-ups

  • The point is, Adam…

  • The Adoption Show Sunday May 25, 2008 Kali Coultas & Kevin Minh Allen

  • Seriously?

  • six months matching

  • Beautiful art

  • I can't have a baby

  • Knives, forks and spoons OH MY!

  • Gay Marriage

  • this woman's work

  • It’s raining

  • I got locked out of my blog

  • If you go to my clips page

  • Angst and career stuff

  • I just deleted a post

 
  • Voices for Vietnam Adoption Integrity

  • Major Media Report on VN Adoption News

  • Vietnam Adoptions: News & Updates

  • The Legacy of 4

  • State Dept. Posts New Vietnam “Fact Sheet”

  • Quarterly ASP Meeting

  • Upside-Down Adoption

  • Pout Breakthrough

  • Another Transition

  • Self-Censorship

  • Medication Decision Matrix

  • Somwhat Inappropriate Sing-Alongs (on a Lighter Note)

  • Third Mom

  • Happy 4th

  • NaJuPicMo

  • Thank you ...

  • Our poor kitty

  • Dance like no one's watching

 
  • Just Enjoy Him: Ramblings of a Mid-Life Mom

  • one word meme

  • post-chemo hair and other stuff

  • Ahhh, the CT scan results

  • we’ll be OK

  • my mom, myself

  • Writing My Wrongs

  • The Artwork of Joanna Fisher

  • Phoenix Rising

  • Seeing the Light

  • Obligated

  • What is IS?

  • The Chronicles of Munchkin Land

  • Questions That Change

  • Fiercely Protective

  • Sad, Sad Times

  • Thoughts on This Month’s Package

  • Guilt and Shame

 
  • Mommyhood and Life

  • They Claim to Speak for God

  • I Want (blog) Candy

  • An Everyday Hero

  • The Chronicles Are Back!

  • Public Service Announcement for Fellow Bookworms

  • My strange Journey My strange Journey

  • Going away

  • 13 Jun 2008 | 3:12 pm

  • How to write this

  • How do I do this

  • 9 Apr 2008 | 10:20 am

  • FAMILY PRESERVATION ADVOCACY

  • A Wonderful Alternative to Adoption

  • MIGHTY Chondrial/Mighty Eve!

  • DeJaVu

  • ...ISTS and ISMS..

  • Capitis diminutio minima and DNA

 
  • Musing Mother

  • 14 Jun 2008 | 10:46 am

  • 4 May 2008 | 9:01 pm

  • 30 Apr 2008 | 4:46 pm

  • 29 Apr 2008 | 6:17 pm

  • 26 Apr 2008 | 6:02 pm

  • Parenting After Adoption

  • Technical Difficulties

  • I Will Never Truly Know - Transracial Adoption

  • Coming Home - Older Child Adoption

  • Be Kind to Birth Moms

  • Normal Behavior vs. Attachment Difficulty

  • Adoption Blogs Most Recent Posts

  • Trying to Sell Your Family When You Want to Be Chosen for Adoption

  • Shame

  • Living With Fetal Alcohol – Our Daughter Is Not Faking

  • Sabotage

  • More on Materialism - The Verdict

 
  • The long road to parenthood

  • A Whole New World

  • Lollipops and Memories

  • A Great Day to be a Mom

  • Thoughts leading up to my first Mother’s Day…

  • Chloe Passes with Flying Colors…

  • Birthmother

  • More Grief

  • No Confirmation of Receipt

  • Sending the birthday gift

  • D

  • Birthday Gift

  • birthmom-confessionsof

  • 30 Jun 2008 | 9:05 am

  • 29 Jun 2008 | 3:31 pm

  • 21 Jun 2008 | 1:12 pm

  • 14 Jun 2008 | 1:46 pm

  • 9 Jun 2008 | 4:27 pm

 
  • All About a Girl

  • Guess What?! Cool News Alert!

  • Could This Dream Mean Something?

  • Today is My Wedding!!!

  • YAY!!! Sharing Time!

  • “P.S. I Love You”

  • Cigarettes & Coffee

  • grasshopper

  • step into the light

  • Second Sunday in May

  • stream

  • two cents

  • oliver michael

  • How cute are they?

  • B/W Beach Photos (from April)

  • Catching up (Ollie w/ family photos)

  • Sweet Ollie...

  • Ollie on the big slide!

 
  • Russian Adoption Journal

  • Red Car Road Trip

  • Say Cheez!

  • Kinduva Big Deal

  • Red Car

  • New Words and Balls

  • Adopted Jane

  • As The Tears Fall...

  • Juno Strikes Again....

  • Arte y Pico Award Goes to Adopted Jane!!!

  • Enna Baretto Update The Tragedy

  • Baby Flushed down Toilet by 8th Grader

  • Hearts Wide Open - Adopting from Kyrgyzstan

  • Mascara, Tea, Downward Puppy & Baby Signs - NaJuPicMo

  • Frosting & Boots with Steamed Milk - NaJuPicMo

  • Fully Recovered After the Tooth Trauma

  • NaJuPicMo

  • NaJuPicMo

 
  • Borrowed Notes

  • Run-in with a demon

  • Madman within

  • “If you have selfish, ignorant citizens, you’re gonna have selfish, ignorant leaders” - RIP, Brotha G.C.

  • You didn’t think I would find out?

  • Writing Campaign for Open Records Movement

  • My Two Boys

  • No Good

  • Pouring

  • Splitting Hairs

  • The Big Pretender

  • Happiness

  • A Child Chosen

  • Question of the Week: Sounds

  • I Can’t Live Without: His Weighted Blanket

  • Blast From the Past: Wedding Bells

  • An Interview with a Birth Mother

  • NPR’s Adoption Series